[Start 1:16 PM. End 1:29 PM]
Five A's
Allowing - Differentiation
Passionate Marriage from Duff
Used his mom as an example - won't eat Asian food; calls it Chinese food; Mom can't help calling it yucky.
Undifferentiated means any disagreement is a threat.
How to counter? When you find someone - the reason chosen - get entrapped
- appreciate & acknowledge differences
- insecurities reflective of one's self
- self-sooth - other person cannot fulfill one's self
- deficits in self-love are generalized (Doing what's in one's best interests)
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