Two weeks it has taken to start writing this piece.
I can blame it on work and the weariness the back pain brings on. Then there were other things that seemed more important to write about. There was getting ready for a court date that got continued.
Here I am with an hour before work starts, and let us see what I can do with the time.
March 16 was drizzly and chilly. I stopped by ex-wife's place and left a message with her doorbell. I was not certain her absence was not a good thing.
I had come in on 38th Street, gawking like a fool of a tourist. The Little Caesar's that had been around the corner from where I used to live with the wife and her kids was good, a barren concrete slap. The Mexican grocery was still in its place; looking rather prosperous.
The ex lives in Meadowbrook, it did look a little seedier than it did when I was young, but far from being a disaster area.
From there I went out to the cemetery. I could not find my first step-father, but my uncle and grandfather were easier to find. My cousin Ron is buried there, too. I said my prayers and made my apologies.
Then I went in search of JB. I was not sure what would be her response when I showed up on her doorstep. It was a close thing, finding her. My memory had her off of 53d Street. I had to call K to get straightened out. There was one very surprised Mexican I woke up that afternoon. JB and I had a very long, rather charming, and very enlightening conversation. I did leave even more confused about my ex. Then I came home.
Monday, March 17.
I thought the Knights of Columbus would still have its St Patrick's Day celebration. They did not. So much for buying K and her new beau lunch. K and I did get to speak for a few minutes before she had to off to work. She gave me a number to call the ex, at the request of the ex.
I ate by myself at Yosaku Hibachi Express, an Asian restaurant that used to be Rax Roast Beef. It could be that I slipped up on my Lenten fast, but I sure did splash myself with soy sauce and wasabi. The crowd looked like the sort that make a career out of all-you-can-eat buffets. I saw no one I knew
It was still cool enough that I did not want to walk about - I should have brought a jacket. However, I did get lucky in finding a parking spot close to the courthouse. For the first time, I noticed Flashback's restaurant was gone. Where do they get food for juries now?
While in the courthouse, I ran into three attorneys I used to know. They all seemed happy to see me and concerned about my well-being. I left two books in MW's courthouse mailbox before stepping into Circuit One. I noticed a few things - Dennis Carroll was on the bench as special judge, the lighting was brighter than it used to be, and I smelled of soy sauce. I decided I needed to be away from any crowds.
I made a stop at the convenience story at 14th and Jackson to clean up my shirt. From there, I called my ex. I got her voicemail, and left my apology to her on that. It would be Wednesday before I found out that there was a response, of sorts. I headed back to the cemetery to find my first stepfather.
Him, I found alone and a little crowded. I doubt anyone has visited his grave until now. I said my prayers and my apologies for the past.
I thought to find one other person, but in that I failed. However, I did get to drive up Scatterfield. I noticed that Anderson has a Qdoba's and a Jimmy Johns, and an Art's Pizza is now on Scatterfield. Office Depot is gone, but two law offices have moved out there. I had that idea back in 2008, but I let myself get talked out of it.
Two car dealerships occupy part of the space where Delco-Remy factories once crowded together. Across the street, Delco's engineering building, an old-fashioned glass-and-steel tower has broken windows, and an air of despondent neglect.
Why no one mentioned the Purdue University building next to the railroad surprises me. Impressive in design, modernity amidst the relics of a decayed industrialism.
The Mark Motor Inn is gone but the Wing On Inn, with its Princess Chicken, persists.
Then I came to the old Mounds Mall. Once a vibrant business center, the first indoor mall in Indiana (if memory serves me right), now looks like an open sore on the land. I drove around. Its surrounding businesses are gone, leaving the sense of being in a dead zone. Some church has taken over the old Mounds Mall Cinema I and II, but that is detached to the far north of the Mall property. Otherwise, the area is as deserted as if the Mall were a leper.
I came home then.
Other than an abundance of vape shops, Dollar General and Family Dollar stores, and pawn shops, I did not see quite the desolation I was warned of back in 2021. Neither did I notice the kind of efforts I see in Muncie to improve its future.
And for the coda: I did get a text from A, my ex, but I did not find until March 19. In this text, she stated she did not want to get back together. That was surprising and good news, since all I meant to do was to apologize, and she would never have been on a list of exes I would want back in my life.
The one thing I realize about life in Muncie compared to Anderson, it is far less crazy here.
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